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   Thursday, September 6, 2007

Dating-Habits for Successful Dating
Every time I talk to a guy who tells me his dating experience, I discover he's making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. Dating can be an absolute nightmare for some people. Whether you have been dating for years, getting back in the game, or just starting out, you could always use a bit of dating advice.

1) Pay attention to her and listen.

Most guys try to impress sexy women by talking all through. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she will begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more about you herself... now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one.

2) Ask questions.

Come up with a list before you leave the house, i.e., How did you get into that line of work? Where did you go to school? Have you seen the new Tom Cruise movie? And so on. If a woman tells you about her weekend at the yoga center, and you know absolutely nothing about yoga, just ask her what she likes about it, how she got into it, etc.

3) Compliment the other person.

Show sincere appreciation, so find something you like and mention it. You may be freaked out by the idea of complimenting a woman on her soulful eyes, so mention her watch, dress, hairstyle, or even her shoes. No need to go overboard: "Nice shoes," will do it.

4) Be yourself.
Exaggerating or boasting your credentials, successes, etc will only make the woman lose interest. Make the other party feel at home so that she does not feel pressured to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.

5) Give your date the royal treatment.

Buy her some flowers, buy her dinner and make her feel special. Show her that you value her company. Women loved to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. For the subsequent date, Cook up a meal at home and spend the evening watching movies or some other activity such as a board game. The meal most likely will be better than at a restaurant.
Enjoy dating while you can and live life to the fullest. You'll attract women who are looking for someone special for a change.
In Your Success,
About The Author:

Pradeep Aggarwal is the creator of dating tantra. The website teaches you the nuances of dating, relationship with tips and tricks for successful dating that will make your date a success. Visit for free 6-part mini course "Make My Love Beautiful".


Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities
Hello Dennis,
You have always been very helpful to me in the past and I was wondering if you could help me out with this situation I've encountered.
My girlfriend smoked cigarettes for over 10 years but stopped. When we started dating I made it clear that I cannot date a smoker as I find the habit simply repulsive. She assured me she stopped and has no interest in smoking again.
She was babysitting for a friend of hers a few days ago, and when she got back they stayed up all night smoking weed. She talked about it with me and I said to her I thought she told me she stopped smoking. She said there's a difference between tobacco and pot and it's not the same thing. I told her I don't like smoking period and I don't see the difference. She went on to say weed is harmless and it's ok ,she only does it a few times a year, etc, so I said fine, just don't talk about it in front of me and under no circumstances smoke in front of me. She then said that may not be possible because "some opportunities present themselves" such as this trip we've planned to take in a few weeks.
I feel very uncomfortable with people smoking in front of me. I have been told time and time again that I am wrong for wanting a non-drug lifestyle, even the soft stuff like weed, and everyone does it and I should just relax.
Do you think I'm being unreasonable with my request for her to not smoke in front of me?
Thanks!
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Hello!
There are really two separate issues here: the rights of smokers verse non-smokers, and the issues between your girlfriend and you. Let's take them in order:
Do smokers have the "right" to smoke wherever and whenever they want? The answer is actually very easy: no. Here's why: Just as smokers claim to have the "right" to smoke; (as in, "Don't tell me what to do with my body"), I have the "right" to swing my arms wildly about my head and shoulders. My "right" extends right up to the point when I strike you in the nose because then, I'm denying you your right not to be hit in the nose!
Smokers are free to do whatever they want, but that right ends when it negatively affects you - beyond simply insulting your "sensibilities". If you don't like the way it looks, that's one thing; however, smokers can't control where their smoke goes. Being forced to smoke someone else's second-hand smoke is entirely another thing because you have the right NOT to smoke if you choose. This makes no difference whether it's tobacco or pot. There's a word for when people both enjoy their freedoms and also insure the freedoms of others: "liberty".
With regards to your girlfriend you have a different issue at play. You have the right to be with a girlfriend that doesn't do something you detest. Likewise, your girlfriend has the responsibility to not inflict these bad habits on you if you don't want them. If your girlfriend wants to smoke pot and you're ok with that away from you, fine. However, she has no right to force you to be comfortable with smoking in front of you if you're not. Would you also demand that she do anal sex if she's not into it - and expect her to just be ok with it simply because you want it?
Here's the bad news: beyond simply laying down the law that she's not to smoke anything around you (no gray areas here) your only remedy if she refuses is to walk. If it's that important to you, you can't get through it and she refuses to comply, she's not the girl for you, plain and simple. You'd have to move on and find a non-smoking girl.
Best regards...
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Choosing And Using Pheromone Cologne - The Non-chemist's Guide to Personal Chemistry
Introduction
Have you ever met someone who seemed to have 'that certain something', who 'radiated confidence' or 'oozed sexiness'? What would it be like if you suddenly found yourself more attractive and appealing to be with, getting more positive attention from everyone you interact with every day? How much would you enjoy that kind of positive change in your life?
That is what you can expect when you are using pheromones. But, are you afraid you need a degree in chemistry to understand these products? Well, you don't, because here is the non-chemist's guide to personal chemistry. I will explain all you need to know so that you can have fun finding the magic formula that will take your social interactions to the next level – right now!
What are pheromones and how do they affect others?
Think of them as fragrances that are designed not only to smell good, but also to affect people in a subtle and unconscious way - the same way you would be affected by being close to a very attractive person.
The kind of pheromone products you will decide to buy depends on the signals you want to send. There are many formulations on the market, that can generally can be categorized based on their desired effect. Based on this, they fall into these groups:
o Sexual stimulants and attractants (make you more sexy)
o Warm and fuzzy (make you more approachable, huggable, people want to get close to you)
o Man of the house (dominant but not necessarily sexual)
o Trust in a bottle (create trust and rapport with members of either sex)
That's right, although pheromone effects are more pronounced with members of the opposite sex, they do have a non-sexual effect on members of the same sex as well. The net effect is that others will perceive you as being more attractive and pleasant to be around in a number of ways.
And since the products mimic natural body chemistry, these reactions are quite natural and unconscious on the part of those people who are affected. Some of the people you meet will be more 'tuned into' the pheromones. I have found that a lot of younger women in particular are affected and attracted to the products. Nice to get that kind of attention, isn't it?
By the numbers
Here is how pheromones will work for you: Let's assume that you are a woman that guys might rate 7 on their attractiveness scale. What would it be like for you if you are suddenly perceived as a 8 or 8.5? What if you were a 5 and could suddenly be perceived
as a 6.5 or 7?
Or, if you are a guy that is always 'just friends' with women - what would it be like to suddenly be perceived as sexier – someone they just felt compelled to hold, to touch and kiss? Maybe you already come across to the ladies as sexually aggressive – maybe too much so. Won't it be nice to be able to radiate the trust, comfort, and warmth that lets them feel safer around you?
Can you imagine the difference this would make in your life? It might range from dramatic to subtle to not at all, depending on the particular person and interaction. But you know you will feel more confident, interesting and attractive and have lots more opportunities and choices in social situations.
What they won't do - a reality check
So, will people be drawn to you like a magnet from across the room, or crowd around you just to bask in your presence? Maybe, but not likely.
Will every member of the opposite sex be hopelessly drawn to you? Not necessarily - some people just can't handle being around a very attractive person. Their reaction may be to 'freeze or flee' because you are just too hot to handle. Overall, a nice problem to have, don't you think?
Will you see a dramatic improvement in your love life? Probably, but that is largely up to you. But, you will have lots of opportunities to improve it using these products!
How they affect you
One of the more interesting and unexpected effects will be the change in how you feel after you start using the products. Because the pheromones affect you at the same time and the same way they are affecting others, and you will find yourself feeling more attractive and appealing – not a bad side effect to have going into a social situation.
When pheromones go wrong - overdose?
Will it make a very sexy person sexier? There are situations where a little is good and a lot is not as good. (Happens with regular fragrances, too, doesn't it?) If you are already an 'alpha' male or female, adding pheromones to your chemistry may intimidate some members of the opposite sex or bring out aggressivenss in the members of the same sex as as they unconsciously react to the challenge you present.
Who uses them, who should use them
By now you have figured out that pheromones are not just for dating and sexual attraction. You may already be aware that psychological studies have shown that attractive people are more successful in all areas of life.
Anyone who is in sales, or has a lot of public contact will benefit from using pheromones. And, the advantages to someone who is dating and socializing are obvious. Or, you might be thinking that you want to rekindle the flame and add some excitement to your existing relationships.
How to get started
Experimentation is the best way to find out what works best for you. Everyone's personal chemistry is different, and your mileage, as they say, will vary. Fortunately there are a number of samplers and beginner kits available and that is where you want to begin.
Experiment and have some fun. Try using the same product for several days in a row and pay attention to the reactions of people around you. Try it at the recommended application level, then vary it – add a little extra, don't use quite as much. Then try another product for a while. And, most good pheromone suppliers will have lots of information and advice in on-line forums and discussion groups.
Bottom Line
Do they work and are they worth it? Absolutely!!!
copyright 2006
Phil Billitz